What to Wear for Your Family Photos | Tips from an Oklahoma City Family Photographer
updated October 8, 2025
FAMILY CLIENT INFO + TIPS
So, you’ve booked your family photo session—yay! 🎉
And now comes the big question: what on earth should we wear?
Why Outfits Matter So Much for Family Photos
Clothing might seem like a small detail, but it’s a big deal. Outfits set the tone for your photos and can take your session from “that’s nice” to “oh my goodness, that’s amazing!”
As an Oklahoma City family photographer for over 5 years, I’ve seen it all—and trust me, when your clothes coordinate (not match), everything just clicks.
Step 1: Coordinate, Don’t Match
Let’s start here: coordinate your outfits, but don’t go full matchy-matchy.
Why?
- Not everyone looks great in the same color or style.
- Matchy outfits can instantly date your photos (looking at you, white shirts and jeans from 2002 👋).
- Coordinating with complementary colors gives your photos a natural, elevated feel.
A good rule of thumb: pick 2–3 colors you want in your palette. You can totally borrow ideas from Pinterest—look at family photo sessions that catch your eye and note the color combos.
💡 Pro tip: Start with one patterned piece you love (like Mom’s dress) and pull colors from that pattern for everyone else’s outfits.
Step 2: Choose Your Style
Decide on your overall vibe: dressy or casual. Either works beautifully for OKC family sessions—you just want it to feel cohesive.
For men:
- Dark jeans or dress pants work great.
- Add a button-down shirt or sweater.
- Closed-toe shoes only, please.
For women:
- Dresses photograph so beautifully—especially flowy ones that move in the breeze.
- If dresses aren’t your thing, try a nice blouse with well-fitted jeans or pants.
- Sleeves are usually more flattering than sleeveless styles.
For kids:
Treat them like mini adults! Their outfits can still be playful but stylish—think bow ties, suspenders, hair bows, or flower crowns.
Step 3: What Not to Wear
Because I’m your friend, here’s my quick “no” list:
🚫 No shorts or capris (only exception is maybe if you're doing beach photos)
🚫 No open-toed shoes for men
🚫 No neon colors or loud patterns
🚫 No logos, baseball caps, or sunglasses
Step 4: Accessorize Smart
Accessories add personality! Think statement earrings, scarves, or layered necklaces. Just don’t overdo it—your faces should be the focus.
And don’t forget to pay attention to nails, hair, and makeup. Consider getting pampered before your session—you’ll feel amazing, and that confidence will shine in your photos. ✨
Step 5: Relax and Enjoy It
Remember: your family photo session is about capturing your love and connection, not just your outfits. When you feel comfortable and confident, it shows.
If you’re looking for family photo session inspiration, of course check out Pinterest. Search "fall family photo outfit ideas", etc. and you will have tons of inspo.
Also, check out one of my favorite resources, Style & Select. They actually offer photo session styling as a service, but their Instagram has tons of helpful tips as well.
Before you know it, your outfits will come together beautifully—and then you can focus on what really matters: making memories that last for generations. ❤️
